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Ready when you are, darling.
Cheers,
May
The beta is the first live round of the Do It Darling coaching experience. It is a 6-week guided program designed to help women move through major life transitions with more clarity, confidence, independence, and forward motion.Because this is the beta round, participants will also have the opportunity to help shape the program through feedback about what resonates, what is most useful, and what could be improved.
This round is for women who are in some kind of meaningful transition and know they are ready for something to change.That may include divorce, the end of a relationship, a career shift, a major move, an identity change, a period of uncertainty, or simply realizing that the life you have been living no longer feels like the life you want.You do not need to have everything figured out. In fact, that is kind of the point.
Yes.There is no fee to participate in this first beta round.In exchange, I am asking participants to show up, engage with the process, and provide candid feedback throughout the six weeks so I can continue refining the program before the full public launch.I'd also love a written or video testimonial I can use for marketing, but this is optional.
Because I want the finished program to be genuinely useful, not simply polished.The beta gives me the opportunity to teach the framework live, see where people have breakthroughs, identify where they need more support, and improve the experience before offering it more broadly.You are not just participating in the first round. You are helping shape what Do It Darling becomes.
The beta is invite or referral only. Please fill out the form on this website. If you received an invitation directly from me or were referred by someone already connected to the program, you are eligible to request a spot.Because I am keeping this group intentionally small, space is limited.
We meet live for six consecutive Monday evenings at 7:00 PM Eastern Time.Each session will build on the previous week, so consistent attendance is strongly encouraged.
Plan for approximately 60 minutes each Monday evening.Some sessions may be slightly shorter or longer depending on the discussion and the needs of the group.
Sessions will be held live online via video conference.Participants will receive the access details before the first session.
Ideally, yes.This is not designed as a drop-in class. The six weeks build on one another, and the group experience will be stronger if everyone makes a genuine effort to attend consistently.That said, life happens. If you know in advance that you may miss one session, that does not necessarily mean you cannot participate.
The sessions will be recorded for participant access or for internal program development.If a session will be recorded, participants will be informed.Any use of identifiable participant stories, comments, images, or testimonials for public marketing will be handled separately and with appropriate permission.
The program will combine guided coaching, reflection, conversation, practical exercises, mindset work, and specific actions to take between sessions.This is not six weeks of sitting around talking about your problems.The goal is to help you identify what is actually keeping you stuck, understand the patterns underneath it, make clearer decisions, and begin taking real action toward whatever comes next.
There may be reflection prompts, exercises, or actions to complete between sessions.Nothing is designed to feel like school, and you will not be graded.The more you engage with the work between sessions, however, the more value you are likely to get from the experience.
For most weeks, expect roughly 30 to 60 minutes of reflection or action between sessions.Some people may choose to spend more time with the material, but you should not need to reorganize your entire life around the program.
No.Do It Darling is a coaching and personal-development program, not psychotherapy or mental health treatment.We may discuss relationships, confidence, identity, fear, boundaries, career, divorce, change, and other deeply personal subjects, but the program is focused on insight, decision-making, personal responsibility, and forward action.It is not a substitute for working with a licensed mental health professional when that kind of support is needed.
No.You decide what you are comfortable sharing.There will be opportunities for discussion and coaching, but nobody will be forced to disclose personal information or tell a story they do not want to tell.
I will treat participant information with care and respect, and everyone in the group will be asked to respect one another's privacy.However, because this is a group program, I cannot legally guarantee the behavior of every other participant.Please use your own judgment about what you choose to share in a group setting.
That is completely fine.You do not have to be the loudest person in the room to benefit from the program.You can participate through conversation, chat, exercises, reflection, or simply listening when another person's coaching happens to hit something you are dealing with too.
No.Do It Darling grew out of conversations around divorce and reinvention, but the larger work is about transition.You may be leaving a relationship, changing careers, rebuilding after a difficult chapter, questioning what you want, redefining yourself, or simply realizing that it is time to stop negotiating with a life that no longer fits.
Perfect.You do not need to arrive with a five-year plan.Sometimes the first thing we need to figure out is simply what is true now, what is no longer working, and what deserves your attention next.Clarity is part of the work.
I want the useful kind.What landed. What did not. What you remembered a week later. What felt confusing. What changed something for you. What you wanted more of. What felt repetitive. What made you take action.You may be asked to complete short feedback surveys during or after the program.
You may be invited to share feedback or a testimonial at the end of the beta, but participation in the program does not automatically mean your story will be used publicly.If I would like to use your name, photo, video, or identifiable story in marketing, I will ask for permission.
The beta ends after the sixth session.There may be opportunities to stay connected to Do It Darling, participate in future programs, join events, or continue coaching, but there is no obligation to purchase anything after the beta.
Please tell me.Because the beta is intentionally small, I would rather know early if something feels like a mismatch than have someone quietly disappear.There is no financial penalty because the program is free, but I do ask that participants treat their spot as a real commitment.
You do not need to be in crisis to qualify for change.Sometimes the clearest signal is simply realizing that you are capable of more, want something different, or have been tolerating a version of your life that no longer feels right.
Then you are very much in the right room.Knowing is not always the problem.Sometimes the real work is understanding why you keep renegotiating with yourself, what you are afraid will happen if you move, and how to turn insight into action.
You might.But the goal is not to blow up your life for the sake of transformation.The goal is to get honest enough with yourself that your decisions stop being driven entirely by fear, habit, obligation, or other people's expectations.You decide what changes. The program helps you become clearer about why.
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